Understanding “Should” for Recommendations

When you use “should,” you’re suggesting that someone do something because it’s a good idea or the best course of action. It’s not as forceful as “must,” but it’s more than just a gentle suggestion. Here’s a closer look at how it works.

1. Using “Should” for Positive Recommendations

To give a strong recommendation with “should,” you place it after the subject and before the main verb:

• Formula: Subject + should + verb + (object).
• Example Sentences:
  • You should try the new Italian restaurant downtown. 🍕
  • He should study harder if he wants to pass the exam.
  • We should leave early to avoid traffic.

In each case, “should” implies that following the recommendation would lead to a good result or avoid a problem.

2. Using “Shouldn’t” for Strong Warnings or Negative Recommendations

“Shouldn’t” (should + not) is equally powerful when you want to give a recommendation about avoiding something.

• Example Sentences:
  • You shouldn’t skip breakfast; it’s the most important meal of the day. 🥞
  • They shouldn’t ignore the warning signs on the road.
  • I shouldn’t eat too much sugar for my health.

This use of “shouldn’t” suggests that following the advice is important to avoid negative consequences.

3. Emphasizing Recommendations with Adverbs

You can add words like “really” to strengthen your recommendation with “should.” This makes your advice sound even more important:

• Example Sentences:
  • You really should see that movie; it’s fantastic! 🎥
  • They really shouldn’t go out in this storm.
  • We really should start saving more money.

Adding “really” in these examples makes the recommendations sound even more urgent or necessary.

Common Mistakes with “Should”

While “should” is straightforward, here are a few pitfalls to avoid:

• Overusing “should”: In very formal situations, like giving an order or setting rules, use “must” or “ought to” if you want to sound more authoritative.
• Mixing “should” and “must”: Remember, “must” is much stronger and implies obligation. Use “should” for advice rather than a command.

Practice Time!

Fill in the blanks with the correct form of “should” or “shouldn’t.”

1. You ________ call your parents more often. They miss you!
2. They ________ bring jackets; it’s going to be cold tonight.
3. We ________ talk during the movie; it’s distracting to others.
4. I ________ have stayed up so late last night. Now I’m tired.

Answer Key:

1. should
2. should
3. shouldn’t
4. shouldn’t